There are a number of times, perhaps in the hundreds that I have heard or read we all have a soundtrack to our lives and that when we hear certain songs we are immediately transported to a place and time stored in between the lines of the lyrics. Sometimes these realizations occur in real time.
A friend of mine posted on facebook that she really enjoyed the new Bruno Mars cd titled 24K Magic…so naturally I bought it. I’ve listened to it a few times and really do like it.
Last Thursday I was reminded via text that my husband’s office Christmas party was that evening. Yikes! Why don’t I write these things down? I grimaced at the thought of looking for something to wear in a closet that belongs mostly to size 8 me. Perfectly beautiful clothing that was purchased in the excitement of a great deal of weight loss with the hopes that I would stay motivated if my clothes got tighter.
Now, I’m no Nancy Reagan. I don’t always buy a new dress for a special occasion. In fact, I’m more of a Rosalynn Carter kinda girl in that I will wear my dresses more than once and don’t care who knows it. So I dug around and found a perfectly suitable size 10 shiny party dress. Yes!!
Then I turned to looking for matching shoes. My heart dropped. Crap, I have to wear high heels. It’s likely been a year since I last wore high heels. In fact, when a friend and I recently went to the opera in San Francisco, I left my heels in the box in the car and walked in flat sandals. Yup, hate heels, having worn them for much of my working life. But, I found the shoes.
My heart literally stopped when I realized that I actually had to wear pantyhose. I don’t even own pantyhose…and it was pouring rain. But, well, the dress called for black sheer pantyhose. I grabbed my rain boots and headed out to my favorite Marshalls hoping to find what I needed just a few blocks from my house rather than having to go into the downtown Macy’s. I drove through flooded streets and into a parking lot that was literally 5-7 inches deep in rain water. HA! I calmly walked into the store looking like THE Gordon’s fisherman and within minutes, I found the stockings. Sheer. Black. Beautiful. AND cheap. I bought two pairs just in case…you never know.
I rushed home to find my spouse getting ready. I turned up my music put 24K Magic on shuffle. I curled my hair, put on some mascara and said, that’s fine, time to dress.
I grabbed the packages of pantyhose and tore one open. Wow, its been a while. I stuck my left hand into the left leg of the garment and immediately felt my nail snag the super sheer fabric.
AY! I gently pulled my hand out, made a fist and tried again. Success! I made it to the foot portion and then realized that I had to lift my sore, tight runner’s leg high enough for my short arms to get my foot into the opening. Huffing and puffing, I got the left leg into the sheath. Now for the right leg…..done!
Women will understand this….now to shimmy these things over my hips.
CUE the damn music.
She got to shake her little something (shake her little something), ooh
Throwing that thing from left, right, side to side.
I heard the lyrics and hoped my spouse was ignoring them. I dared not look up lest I start laughing. If I laughed, he would laugh. Then I would get mad and well, it was supposed to be a fun Christmas party. I dared not make eye contact.
Then it happened. I stuck my thumb through the fabric. I cursed out loud. I took them off and thought, good thing I bought two!
She got to have her own money (she got her own money), oh yeah
Shout out to the girls that pay they rent on time
I opened the second package as the iPod blared Bruno’s mocking lyrics at me.
Looking for them girls with the big old hoops
I again averted my eyes and kept my focus on sticking my legs into the pantyhose. In my younger days, I would have plopped to the floor and figured it out. Yeah, those were the days when the midsection didn’t prevent me from folding over. I started to sweat again.
I’m looking at you
Yeah, you baby
My husband slipped on his sweater and declared he was ready to go. Bruno laughed and said,
Now let me hear you say you ready (I’m ready), oh yeah
Girl, you better have you hair weave strapped on tight
‘Cause once we can go, where we rolling
I said loudly, to cover the lyrics and get him out of the room, you should go get an umbrella and put the gifts into the car. I will be right down. I adjusted the waistband on the very restrictive undergarment and slipped into my dress.
You got what I want
Girl, you got what I need
Ooh, squeeze all of that into my coupe
I grabbed slipped my shoes on and my feet slid to the front where my previously unrestricted toes slammed into the all but forgotten scrunched position. I gingerly walked to the stairs and wondered how I would ever get down without throwing my back out, or falling. Old runners trick: go down backward.
I’m looking at you
Yeah, you baby
I turned off the iPod and thought…I can do this. It’s just 5 hours, complete with dancing.
I should have put Old Blues Eyes on the record player…”You’re lovely….the way you look tonight.”
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